Alcoholism, like any other addiction, is a
difficult thing to quit. Your dependence on alcohol to get through the days,
ignore certain feelings and issues, and evade responsibility can very well put
your health at risk, and concern your loved ones. The following are some basic
steps on how to overcome alcoholism that should be taken into consideration
when dealing with the addiction.
1. Recognize the Problem
Denial is a powerful mechanism that allows
you to evade the truth of your situation. By recognizing that you have a
problem, in other words, that your alcohol addiction is in fact an addiction,
you can begin to improve and seek help. It is crucial to ask yourself the
question of what influence does alcohol have over you, and during which
circumstances do you resort to drinking. Write it down.
2. Set Goals
Now that you have recognized the issue at
hand, the only way to go is up. Set goals for the short, medium and long run.
Many believe that having one goal, or one day that they will completely be free
of their addiction is the way in which you should tackle it. No. Write out a
series of goals for tomorrow, for this month, and for this year. You will need
to have structure in your life in order to recover, so set those goals.
3. Clear
Alcohol-Related Influences Out From Your Life
This is easier said than done. Throw out
those bottles, begin thinking of re-modeling that mini-winery you may have, and
most importantly, cut your alcohol buddies out of your life. It is tempting to
fall back into your drinking if you are surrounded with people who you only
associate with because of parties, so assume responsibility for the friends
that you spend your time with.
4. Reach Out
External help can always be helpful,
especially in crucial moments of life. Seek a counselor, a friend who you can
trust who will track your improvement, and step into your local Alcohol
Anonymous meeting or alcohol treatment centers. Do not feel shy or ashamed to
ask for help — as long as you are willing to improve your condition, you will
have all the support you will need.
5. Remain Patient
Rome was not built in a day, and nor will
your problems disappear in the first week. Keep this in mind: Baby steps. The
small measures that you take to remain sober will eventually amount to your
solid success. Be patient with yourself, your mind, your body and emotions. For
some, it is incredibly difficult to deal with the person they are when sober,
yet patience is key to recovery. Withdrawal symptoms will occur, but these are
completely expected as the body is purging the habit just as your mind is. Remember
that quitting completely from the first day will most likely result in binging,
so take it easy.
6. Have a Constant Inspiration in Mind
There will be times in which you will want
to fall back and grab a bottle (or two). Retaining an inspiration throughout
the course of your journey will allow you have direction and that encouraging
nudge on the shoulder to keep going. Pick a quote, song, photograph, story or
anything else that you wish and keep it close to your heart at all times.
Stacey Watts, the writer, is an advocate
of drug and alcohol treatment centers. She also volunteers during her spare
time and join women on discussion groups in the treatment centers. She also
writes for Pathways ,
a drug and alcohol treatment center and the benefits they provide.
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