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You have that sinking feeling in your stomach that something is not right, but you just can not figure out what it is. Your spouse has been working late most of the time and has become distant emotionally and physically. Perhaps your instincts must be telling you that your spouse has been cheating on you, but you do not have any proof. Fortunately, there are several surveillance devices that are easy to use so you can determine and easily prove that you are being cheated on.
1. The Voice Activated Recorder
A Voice activated recorder or VAR automatically switches on when the device detects speech. So if your spouse contacts someone on the way to work or on the way home and if someone may be in the car as well, the VAR hidden inside the vehicle can record the conversations. You can also opt to hide a VAR in your bedroom or the guestroom if you have a feeling that your spouse brings their partner home while you are at home or with friends.
2. The Keylogger
This keyboard tracker can help you catch your cheating spouse through his computer every time he goes online. The keylogger can tell you what websites your spouse visits, expose secret email accounts and provide you with conversations that your spouse had online. All you have to do is insert a small USB device or install software on the computer, depending on the type of keylogger you have and what sort of computer you will be using it on. In fact, this device can be used on family computers too if you have children and teens so you can track everything they are doing online.
3. GPS Vehicle Tracking Device
People can easily lie, but GPS trackers can not. Your spouse might claim to be busy in a meeting at the office, but the GPS device on the vehicle indicates a location downtown at a parking lot of a hotel. You can also place the device on a personal item that your spouse carries all the time so you can track the exact location all the time. This device is very effective in caching your spouse red handed as you can rely on real time tracking and not just logged tracking.
4. Hidden Cameras
Though it may hurt you all the more, catching your spouse and the third party in the act is crucial. For this to be done easily and discreetly, you can invest in a mini camera that can be hidden in random objects such as a teddy bear, clock, tissue box and even the smoke detector. Simply use objects that are commonly found in your room but not touched. These hidden devices are also known as nanny-cams that are commonly used by parents so that they can monitor their children and nannies while at work. As such these hidden cameras are a convenient and efficient way of collecting evidence of infidelity that can be used should the cheating carry on and lead to a divorce. Evidence is crucial in divorce cases and according to Tad Nelson & Associates, "If adultery is responsible for the break up of a marriage it can have an affect on everything else in the divorce including the equitable division of property and even child visitation rights."
Aside from using these devices to catch your cheating spouse, you must use your common sense and simple investigating. You can keep a journal of your spouse's activities, days and time at work, time getting home and the number of business trips taken and how long they lasted. As a legal life partner, you also have the right to know what hotel your spouse will be staying and number you can call if the cell phone is unreachable. Note down moods, frequency of fights and behavior, while being curious with belongings whenever you do the laundry, household cleaning, receive bank statements and calculate household expenses.
Valerie Terger is a freelance writer specializing in various criminal cases, relationship and family legal affairs, and the latest apps and devices used in legal matters.
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